According to the Merriam-Webster Online dictionary, adventure can be “an undertaking usually involving danger and unknown risks, an enterprise involving financial risk” or “an exciting or remarkable experience.” Since I’m not asking anyone to take any financial risks here, we’ll kick that one out of the discussion and work with the other two – an undertaking involving danger or an exciting experience.
It’s funny that these two different phrases define understandings of the exact same word. In a way I look at them as cause and affect. If you take an unknown risk that may involve danger (and let’s be honest, danger is a very ambiguous term and can mean many things to different people), you can have an exciting or remarkable experience. But, the truth (because we are being honest here) is that sometimes these unknown risks don’t always equal an exciting or remarkable experience. Sometimes the experiences are painful – physically, mentally, emotionally or a combination of all three. And the sad fact is that the threat of a painful experience causes so many of us (myself included) to shy away from any type of adventure at all – we don’t take the risks and we don’t experience the excitement or remarkability available to us.
I hadn’t realized, personally, how much this fear of the unknown (or maybe it’s simply the desire to remain comfortable, no matter what we might be missing out on), hampered my own life choices until I started working on the 2nd edition of my travel guide (Phoenix, Scottsdale, Sedona and Central Arizona: Great Destinations, a Complete Guide).
A lot has happened in the restaurant and tourism business since I published the last edition in November of 2007, pre-economic distress. Today, there are more than a couple of restaurants and hotels that have closed their doors, changed their names or moved. So, my job of writing a second edition is not a simple task of fixing errors and updating a phone number here or hours there. In many cases, I have to delete entire entries and come up with new recommendations, and that means trying new restaurants, checking out new museums, saying goodbye to those that are closing and finding other means of sharing my experiences of the Valley and its surrounding areas. I had about a year, so I figured that I would try to fit in several new experiences each week. Instead of going to my standard array of close and cozy restaurants, coffee shops and hot spots each week where people at least recognized me as a regular, I would head to other parts of the Valley. I would regularly step into new spaces, dine on different cuisine and be among people that I didn’t recognize whatsoever.
Easy, right? After all, I’m a travel writer; my job is to try the new and different and to share the best of those experiences with my readers. And I do that, regularly, I promise. I typically shun chain restaurants of any kind (unless it’s my kids weekly visit to the fast food savior of all parents – McDonald’s), and I try not to hit the same places over and over again, opting instead for a different museum or restaurant or shopping experience or hike, etc. But, that’s when I put on my travel writer hat, when I’m prepped and ready for something new, not during my regular freelance writer work-from-home kind of day. When I tried to implement my well thought-out plan, I came up against resistance, my own resistance! It was a like an invisible wall between me and my plan and I was offering excuses. It’ll take too long to go into Scottsdale to visit that museum before I go to my next meeting. It’s too hot to take a walk along that particular path right now. I don’t wanna. What?! I was stunned. I prided myself on getting outside of my own little box and here I was whining about doing it more often.
So, I understand. I understand how hard it is to try a new restaurant, visit a museum in another city in the Valley, take a ride up I-17 north to Jerome or maybe one down I-10 and I-19 south to Tubac. It can be physically, emotionally and mentally challenging to push ourselves beyond our comfort zones – to step outside into the unknown, to take risks and to face danger (even if its our own discomfort) and to maybe have a painful experience (even if it’s just a less than pleasant meal). But, the truth is – it’s worth it. It’s the stuff that makes our lives memorable. Even the bad adventures make some of the funniest and most amusing stories that we tell and re-tell for years after they’ve happened.
All I’m saying is try something different. Just when it gets hardest to push through that comfort barrier, push just a little more, expand your world, enjoy your life, and have a little adventure! It may not get any easier (I’m case in point), but your world will get a little bigger each time you do it, and trust me, in the end, you’ll walk away with an exciting or remarkable experience or at the very least, a very funny story.
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